Relationship School

Relationship Skills Training

Group Program + Online Course
for Healthy Relationships, Conflict & Intimacy

Learn how to de-escalate and repair any conflict
so you can maintain intimacy for the rest of your life.

Not another online course you buy and don’t finish.
An intentional container for growing together.

Each week has two parts: the preparation and the live session.

Step 1: Before the session
Watch the Curriculum

Each week you’ll watch a short required video from the Relationship Skills Training Online Course. This isn’t just new information — it’s a new level of consciousness. You can’t solve a problem from the same level of thinking that created it. Discover paradigm shifts that change the way you think about yourself, your partner, conflict, and intimacy. You’re downloading a new operating system to replace the outdated conditioning that keeps you stuck. This is where you learn what it actually takes to build and maintain a deeply intimate partnership.

Step 2: Attend the live session
1-hour weekly group call

Each week you’ll join a live 1-hour group call with other couples. Come with your questions. We work through them live, applying the concepts directly to your relationship. One of the most powerful parts of this program is the community. Watching another couple navigate something you recognize — from the outside, with fresh eyes — creates a kind of clarity you can’t get in private sessions. Show up prepared, open, and ready to learn. The breakthroughs you witness in others will accelerate your own.

Most couples don’t break up
because they stop loving each other…

The problem

Couples break up because they’ve been hurt so many times from unresolved arguments that they reach their limit. Eventually someone says, “I can’t take this anymore.”

Even if your relationship is good 90% of the time, without these skills, the 10% that’s not working ends up compounding and eroding intimacy until you become roommates or think you’re incompatible and feel forced to break up.

The solution

Relationship Skills Training is a live group program for couples ready to build a shared operating system, practice the skills required to actually resolve arguments for good, and use conflict to grow closer.

This isn’t just about learning better communication skills. It’s a paradigm shift in how you understand yourself and each other — turning concepts into experiences as you learn what it actually takes to create a deeply intimate partnership.

The better you handle conflict,
the better your intimacy becomes.

When partners don’t share the same map — frameworks, language, and skills — conflict is inevitable.

01
Shared language
Both partners, same map

When partners don’t share the same frameworks and language, they can’t use the tools in the moments they need them. This program builds a shared operating system — together, in real time — so you can reach for it when things get hard.

02
Embodied practice
Skills, not just concepts

You can’t reach for a skill you’ve never practiced. Every session combines teaching with hands-on experiential work — role-play, real-time feedback, actual practice — so the skills become muscle memory before the moment of crisis.

03
Community
Learn alongside others

We learn better together. Watching other couples work through the same things normalizes the struggle and accelerates the learning. You’re not just working on your relationship — you’re building skills alongside a community of people doing the same.

This program is not for everyone.
For couples who want a relational workout.

This program is for you if:
  • Your relationship is good most of the time — but that 10% that isn’t is starting to compound
  • You’re tired of pop psychology from social media without real experiences to back it up
  • You’ve been to therapy before but made no real progress
  • You want practical tools that empower you to repair and resolve any fight
  • You’re curious about partnership as a spiritual growth practice
  • You’re willing to humble yourself in service of growth and connection
  • You don’t just want to fight better — you care about real resolution
  • You understand that we learn better in community and enjoy witnessing others
  • You want to prioritize your relationship for two hours per week
  • You’re willing to come as a student — humble, curious, and prepared
This program is NOT for you if:
  • You’re in high conflict or on the brink of divorce
  • Your partner is unable or unwilling to participate
  • You can’t commit to two hours per week
  • You have unresolved trauma or active addiction that requires individual support
  • You can’t make at least three of the four weekly calls per month

Not sure if you qualify? This program isn’t for everyone. Apply and we’ll let you know if you’re a good fit, or if one-on-one work is better for you.

Stay as long as it’s working.
Stop whenever you want.

This program is for couples whose relationship is 90% good, but the 10% that isn’t working is costing you time, energy, and intimacy. It’s designed so you can start with one month and see how it feels — no commitment required. But it’s optimized for three months, because that’s realistically what it takes to build the foundational skills that will actually change how you relate to each other. For $1,500 — less than the cost of six private sessions — you get 3 months: 12 live 1-hour group calls plus full course access.

4 Live Group Calls + Full Course Access
$500
per couple / per month — that’s $125 per live session
  • 4 live 1-hour group sessions every month
  • Full Relationship Skills Training Online Course included
  • Weekly video prep content (10–30 min)
  • Q&A + coaching to apply concepts to your relationship
  • Community of couples doing the same work
  • No minimum commitment — stay as long as it’s working
Choose this if: you need the map, the skills, and a place to practice.
Private Sessions with Brian
$350
per session
  • Tailored support for your unique relationship dynamics
  • For higher conflict or deeper intervention
  • Can be combined with the group program
Choose this if: you need focused one-on-one work right now.
Your instructor

Brian Tohana — Couples Coach

Brian Tohana

Couples need a place to practice new skills alongside other couples with the same struggles. Training for conflict is like training for a gold medal — you can’t expect yourself to perform well under pressure when you have no practice.

I created this group program and online course to fill the gap that most couples know they have: we were not taught anything we needed to create healthy, long lasting, intimate relationships. I built this because couples deserve a real school for relationships — not therapy, not a podcast, not a weekend retreat.

New skills are just the beginning… changing the way you think, understand yourself and what partnership really is, is the paradigm shift I want you to leave with.

My Mission: Empower couples to confidently de-escalate and repair any conflict on their own, so they can actually use conflict to deepen trust and grow closer. I’m passionate about helping couples be able to handle anything on their own, so that they can maintain passion & intimacy for the rest of their lives.

Build the skills before
you need them most.

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